19 May 2011

人生有几个十年,最重要要活得痛快!!!

古人说:“人生就像一场戏”...其实,每个人都是生活的导演。每个人都是戏里面的主角。人的生命是短暂的。我觉得我们应该美化我们的人生,让我们的人生更精彩。不要像一张白纸一样白!!!人生何尝不是一场戏?只是,在这场戏里,你是演好人好事或是坏人坏事而已。其实我们大家演的都是同一场戏。只是有人戏份多点,有人少点,有人则做主角,有人则做配角。有人做好人,有人做坏人,而有人长 命百岁,有人昙花一现。有人荣华富贵,有人饱受饥苦。有人一帆风顺,有人一世坎坷。因为每个人的际遇不同,所以所演的戏也就不同。如果你出身富贵人家,你演的就是一个富家弟子;如果你出身贫困之家,你演的就是一个在底层挣扎向上爬的人。我们不要相信命运,我们要相信努力;我们不要抱怨命运,我们要勇敢面对;我们 不要奢望永远,我们要把握现在;我们不要期望太远,我们要珍惜眼前。
可是每一场戏都有落幕的时候,正如每个生命都有走向终点的时候。当你演完戏后,得到的是雷鸣 般的掌声还是鸦雀无声,表示着你的戏是成功还是失败,人生是有价值还是毫无意义。很多时候,我们的戏还没演完,我们的生命却结束了,我们或许还想着这出戏 我要这样演,我可以演得更好,但我们已经没有机会了。我们不应该生气,也没得遗憾,因为那场戏就要求我们生得伟大,死得光荣。或许我们死得不那么光荣,不那么 情愿,但我们只能接受。因为一场戏的闭幕往往预示着另一场戏的开锣,我们用自己的离去成就了另一出戏的产生,我们用自己的伤痛成全另一个生命的诞生。我们 延续了生命,没有死亡就不会有新生,我们的离开必会换来一出更好的戏。
生命真的很脆弱,一次不小心的摔伤,一次小小的感冒,一次无心的争吵,一次无意的疏 忽……就让一个昨天还活生生的生命转眼消失。听说过太多的生死,看到过太多的悲剧,感受过太多的离别,我们已经失去了对未来的过高期待,失去了对人生的过 高憧憬。生命就好像演戏一样,有人落场,有人出场,有人死亡,有人重生。然而生活毕竟不是演戏。戏里人死能复生,而现实中,人死而难生。面对真实生活里的 生生死死,我们只能像戏里一样,坦然从容的接受,按照要求好好演下去。如果一切是不能强求,我们就没必要挽留。我们只能把握那一刻的存在,把自己的角色演 好,表现出自己的风采,演绎出自己的价值。戏如人生,人生如戏,两者那么相近却又不可能相同,如幻如真。谁也不能预测自己的将来,谁也不能控制别人的命 运。我们能做的就只是开心过好今天,勇敢面对明天。戏里的人生可以更改,我们现实的人生无法改变,我们知道生命只有一次,那么我们就要好好的活这一次。
人生有几个十年,最重要要活得痛快!!!哪怕我们演的只是一棵小草,一朵小花,一只蚂蚁,一粒尘土,我们都要做好那个自己。朋友们,一定要活得有意义噢~

25 Feb 2011

Friends~

What is the definition for "Friend"? I guess most people are knew what is friend means. But most people also cannot be a friend like the mean of  "Friend". As I know, the definition of friend is a person who acts as a supporter by giving financial or other help when we need them. Another meaning of friend is a person who is not an enemy or who is on the same side with you. But, people will change in anytime. Some will become good and some will become even more worse. 
First, we look at definition number one. It said that friends is our supporter. I think only our parents and also an intimate will support us until the end. For the rest, they will run as far as possible when we need their support or help. In addition, some of them not only did not support us, but also look down on us. Have everyone met a friend like this before? Yes, I met before and I hate this kind of friend!!! When some people become rich, they will look down on others. I mean some people, not everyone. I don't know why they look down on other people? They will not in rich status forever. If yes, I nothing to say. And even they are rich, they also no need to look down on others. So, this kind of friend have or no have also does not matter for me. 
Come to the second meaning. Friend is not your enemy or who always on the same side with you. Most people are also like to compare with each other, especially between friends. I also don't understand why? Why? There are no prizes to get if they win in the comparison. So, what they compare for? To show off, or want the whole world to know that they are rich? Most of my friends around me are like to compare with each other. In that way, it will hurt the feelings of each other. Finally, friend will become enemy. We need to satisfy what we have now and don't be so arrogant. People must be humble in their attitude, so that people would like to be friend with us. For me, a person who no have friend is a very sad thing. Because, when we need some help, no one can help us. There is a proverb saying, we rely on our parents when we are at home, but we rely on friend when we are at outside. Sometimes, some unexpected things will happen to us when we at outside. It is good if we have a lot of friends. Furthermore, an ancients said that, we only need an intimate friend is enough for us to life in this world. Most people think that want to find an intimate friend is an easy things. I don't think so. For now, I only have one intimate friend. I will always share my happiness and sadness to him. When I was in difficult time, he will help me to setter my difficulties. So, I appreciate a lot to him. Finally, I hope you all will success in finding an intimate friend and wishing you all happy friendship forever.   

23 Feb 2011

Today's mood...

This is my first time I step into blogger. A blink of an eye, another year has passed. Now, is already year 2011. In a new year, of course I have a new desire. My wish is earn a lot of money and go to travel the place where I wish to go. But how to earn money in a short time? Each time when I want to take money from father, I sure must first be scolded. I hate this kind of feeling! Since that time, I promise when I growth up, I want to earn a lot of money. So now, I open a tuition class for students in primary school. But, student for my tuition class is only one person. Haha~ Funny right? Actually, today only I start my tuition class. And the student is my friend's child. So, hope everything will run smoothly today. So, that's all for today. GAMBATEH♥